Pre-Negotiation Form

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Please provide your Social(s)

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This person should be someone you trust to know about the nature of our time together.

How would you describe your experience in rope from both a bottoming and/or topping perspective?

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If you have no experience in rope bondage, please speak from a general kink/fetish and/or queer experience.

Predicament Bondage (Being restrained & 'forced' to experience opposing sensory forces)

Semenawa (Challenging and intense rope with a focus on surrender and 'torture')

Exposure Rope (where rope is used to dishevel & disrupt your state of dress, or create shapes that open up the body in vulnerable ways such as spreading the legs)

Relaxing & grounding energy/connection.

Chest Compression (whether for gender affirming purposes, restricting your breath, or the desire to feel a grounding somatic experience)

Rope that captures your hair

Mouth Rope/Rope Gag (Rope that goes into/across the mouth, often gag-like. Can induce drooling and impede the ability to speak).

Face Rope (Rope that wraps around the head)

Toe/Foot Rope (not the same as ankle cuffs, but rope that is wrapped around the feet and toes)

This is a completely non-sexual/platonic experience for me.

I welcome sensual touch such as caressing, grabbing/groping.

I welcome affectionate and gentle touches that feel caring and supportive.

I welcome firm and more assertive touches and wish for my body to be explicitly manipulated and moved in various positions.

I welcome soft and affectionate body kisses (forehead, cheek, shoulder - excluding mouth and erogenous areas)

I welcome touching, grabbing, or pulling of my hair.

I do not want my hair touched.

Direct sexual stimulation of genitals/erogonous areas is off the table for my first tie with a client.

Do you have additional comments regarding energy and touch for our session?

Floor Play

Introduction into Partial Suspension (a taste of gravity, suitable for many bottoms new to rope but with solid communication and body awareness)

Challenging Partials (must have some experience in partial suspension previously)

Introduction into Full Suspension (must have solid experience in partials and/or some suspension experience)

Challenging Full Suspension (must have been in several suspensions, with moderate experience with transitions)

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Let's discuss what this means further

Are there any specific feelings or headspaces you hope to experience during our session?

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How confident are you in your ability to communicate your needs, boundaries, and your 'No's'?

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What does it look like if you are not having a good time and may require us to pause the scene and check-in?

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Do you ever go non-verbal? Are there other aspects to your body language that will present?

If at any point you need/want to stop the scene early, is there anything you anticipate needing from me?

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Is there anything specific you want off the table or would describe as a hard limit?

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Hard limits are non-negotiable and are meant to be 'off limits'. Please consider what types of sensations, touch, stimuli, language/words, and types of play that you do not want us to engage in.

Please describe any physical/medical considerations I need to be aware of that may impact our session:

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This can encompass past physical injuries, medical conditions such as things impacting the circulatory system, nervous system, access or accommodations for medications and/or medical devices, symptoms of medication that may impede or impair your ability to communicate, or think clearly etc.

Are there any specific positions your body cannot sustain or can increase risk of injury to your body?

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Consider your joints, hyper mobility, or positions that may exacerbate old injuries or current chronic conditions.

Are there any specific emotional/mental triggers that may be impacted by rope for us to consider?

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This can include sensory/overstimulation, words or types of touch, ways/methods of communicating or problem solving etc.

How would you describe your approach to consent?

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What would you need for aftercare?

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I have not decided yet.

Photography includes up to 5 edited images for $50 (unless booking for Co-Top Session, then photography is included at no additional cost)

A facetime/phone call reviewing things together.

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I may require we schedule a call to better work thru the negotiation process if I anticipate final negotiations may take more than 30 minutes during our 2 hour session.

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